The whole process was adoption was harder and more time taking than the couple anticipated. This came as a gift for Sara. She wrote on her website of how this journey made him a better person. She said that she learned the lesson of patience, because “good things to those, who wait.” She also learned of important every second is. She understood the value of time and every moment that you spend with your loved ones. While waiting during the process, she made most of it by spending quality time with Michael and Dayshawn which helped her to not worry about the future and live in the moment.